I don’t think our relationship is going anywhere. He frequently asked about money. I’m just trying to figure out the right words and time to tell him.Leah — Your story sounds a lot like mine — and I got the same response from my therapist. I got monthly scholarship but he didn’t). All in all he already borrowed nearly 2000 Dollars from me. And yet, you love him. These five tips will help you figure out what to say to a guy who keeps asking for a loan. You love him, but you can’t give him your money. Do not put your financial future at risk because your boyfriend can’t manage his money. You know who your friends are when you are hurt and broke.If you can’t be honest with your boyfriend and say you can’t lend him money, then lie. Your boyfriend has been good to you, has treated you well on dates, and is overall a nice guy. If he was using me all along, we’all break up and I’ll find someone better. I can let him borrow a couple hundred for once I probably owe him for all the dates and love he’s given me but a huge business amount I cannot.
He says that he is disappointed that he asked for help and I didn’t give it to him….because it was only $350…not a full bailout. He broke up with me about 3 months after and pretended that never happened. He may even start stealing from you. Talk to your parents, or your smartest friends, or even a counselor or savvy coworker. Once he asked for a larger amount saying that he got to do something important and will pay me back. My husband and I are dreaming about what it’d be like to retire in our 50s – which is less than ten years from now! I have been seeing this guy for the past 4 years, back then he was OK. I currently carry $11,000 in debt that I am trying very hard to pay down. But I’m finally feeling clear headed as day and I want a man who is a provider NOT A GOLDDIGGER.I absolutely agree with this last comment. I don’t know if he is just using me or if he realy loves me. But if your boyfriend really cares for you, he’ll understand why you can’t lend him money.What should I do?
There is a 12 year age difference…which I think is why we originally broke up. (His family is Mexican and he says it’s part of their culture for the kids to always help their parents out after the parents have given so much to raising the kids…but I really can’t understand compromising your own financial security to bolster someone else’s. But I’m very proud of you! If I were you, I’d tell your boyfriend the truth. But after 2 years he started asking money from me (both of us are students and didn’t have job. No vacations or holidays until you can afford it. And it destroy my finances and my love for him… never ever try to be a mother to a guy…Thanks for the advice on what to say if your boyfriend asks to borrow money.The difficult truth is that when you tell your boyfriend that you can’t lend him money anymore, he will get angry and frustrated. I thought about for couple of they. You don’t like having to tell him no, but you have no choice. I have the glorious opportunity to enjoy both.I’ve been seeing someone who I dated for nearly 4 years in the early 80s. I hope readers who are thinking about lending money from their boyfriends learn from you, and think twice about falling for it. It is difficult and frustrating when he thinks you are obligated to help him. He is so far behind in his bills, and he’s motivated to pay his rent and buy food and gasoline for his car before paying you back. I told him that it was in good standing. Only once in an emergency I asked to borrow $10 from the mooch, of course he acted as if *I* had a lot of NERVE! he wanted me to transfer my money, i only have like £12 in my bank and he still was asking for it and i lied and said that my mum wouldn’t be happy if my bank balance went down to 0 and i also needed it for the bus (which i don’t bc i dropped off and picked up from school). Besides that, he then decides to ask me about my credit. its like im disturbing him and that i don’t have right to ask him for my money. Amateur titleNFL rookie cut for sneaking woman into hotel: ReportKelly Clarkson claps back at fan who trolled her on TwitterNordstrom's anniversary sale is full of WFH essentials Or should I just run for while I still can?Don’t give your boyfriend the money, Sabrina! One of the smartest ways to respond when a man asks you for money is to tell someone you trust. So now we’ve had our first fight…in 35 years. We need to smarten up and separate money from our dating relationships.So true about getting rid of jerks that need money all the time. My boyfriend recently asked me if I’d like to be his bank.